A mom is making desperate attempts to reconcile with her son. She is dying of breast cancer. A dramatic situation. This woman happens to be Eminem’s mom.
In a recent article from The Mirror, she claims:
I am dying of cancer but my son Eminem won’t pay to save me
Debbie loses weight every day. She faces banktrupcy over the medical fees for her cancer treatment. Moreover, she is heartbroken because her son Marshall remains angry with her.
Is Marshall a monster for leaving his mom alone in such dramatic situation? Certainly not.
Marshall is an abused child who is still hurt by what his mom did to him when he was a kid. Of course, he has exorcised most of the demons from his past in songs like Cleaning Out My Closet, but deep inside he must still feel wounded. Many kids wouldn’t have overcome such circumstances. Luckily, Marshall did.
Some of his detractors often argue that Debbie is treated badly by her son Marshall because he’s a blatent mysogynist- which is untrue.
Debbie always wants to appear a a perfect mom in front of the media. Each time I have seen her on TV, her language clearly showed how much she wanted to prove which kind of good and overprotective mom she was towards her first son. The trouble is, many facts dement her statements as well as many people such as Kim and her former husbands and boyfriends witness the contrary.
So many people who used to live with Debbie or who knew her personally can testify how sick her behavior was. Also, which mom would dare suing her own son for a total amount of 12 million dollars and then claim she never intented to sue him, that it was Kim’s fault?
I never intended to sue my son. The lawsuit was my attempt to hold on to my home. I’d given Marshall my trailer to rent when I moved back to Missouri. But Kim fell behind with the payments. I figured I had to sell it to pay the debt, but she wouldn’t let me. She threatened me with a lawyer, so I consulted one myself. Then the whole thing just escalated. The first thing I knew, I swear, was when Marshall rang me and said, ‘Mom, why are you suing me for $10 million?’ I nearly fell over. It was ludicrous. Then word got out and the world saw me as an evil bitch from hell. What mother sues her own son? I was cursed in public, spat at in shopping malls.
Debbie always expected Marshall to apologize. Did I understand well? Yes, Debbie wants Marshall to apologize. For abusing him? For denouncing true facts about Debbie in his lyrics?
Maybe this is precisely where the problem lies: Debbie doesn’t want to admit her fault which is exactly what hurts Marshall so much and maybe the main reason why he doesn’t manage to forgive her:
See what hurts me the most is you won’t admit you was wrong… (Eminem, Cleaning Out My Closet)
Many Eminem fans may think that Eminem doesn’t talk to his mom any more, but it is untrue. No matter how bad their relationship may be, they are both still in touch.
Debbie feels the urge to reconcile with Marshall, she is very conscious that her life may end soon. Despite all that happened between mom and son, Marshall needs to realize the emergency of the situation: his mom may die soon and it is always horrible to cope with the death of relatives without any sign of forgiveness. But Debbie, just one question: Why don’t you admit you were wrong with your son?
If you were honest enough to admit your mistakes, you’d recover the son you pretend to love so much.
Just listen to all of you, the majority of you are ignorant and it shows in the grammar, profanity, tone and spelling of your writings. So what if she was a terrible person, he should be the bigger person and put it behind him in light of the situation. I’m not condoning what she did, said or even the way she acts. In all honesty she should apologize but at this point she’s dying and she should at least have the opportunity to reconcile even if a sorry never comes. Enough of all the racist remarks! All of you idiots out there spreading hate and hard feelings are no better the the idiots that can’t spell or write, a rapist, drug dealer or a thug or the street. The rest of you need to get an education, spell check and a likely a job and stop whining about things that don’t matter and try worrying about your own lives.
Patrick, how are yuu gonna sit herre n tale us ta stop whining? Nigga, yuu whining about us whining. Come on dawg, das pitiful. I thank yuu tha one dat needz ta worry about yur own life instead of gettin on blogs and criticizin otha people for dere spellin and junk. Oh and for ya infomation my vocab is great, I jus choose naght ta use it on here bcuz I don’t hav too. It’s naght like it’s a fuckin exam, so let people do dey thang n stop worryin about tha spellin.
Even though I don’t agre wit ya on all of dat, I do agree witcha on tha racism. It’s killin our country, but errybuddy do hav a freedom of speech so I’m not gonna tale dem ta stop tha racist commentz. Dey jus need ta thank about wut dey type, b4 dey type it.
Dear Patrick, fuck you.
By the way, you spelled “the” twice in your atempt to bitch at people about thier bad grammar. Why don’t you fucking use a spell check before you bitch at others for not using one. Fucking hypocrite. There, was my grammar good enough for your oh-so perfect standards?
Oh sorry Glavin, i forgot to comment on ur blog i so busy telling Patrick to STFU. lol. I agree with a lot of your views and i think you’re right. A lot of people are very one sided. either all his mom or all him. thier both wrong and right in thier own ways, and em has everyright to never speak to her again. But, i do have some sympothy for his mom considering she dying and her son wont speak to her or pay for her treatment, but then, thinking back to what she did to him as a kid, its like wait… Em is still really hurt and if she really wanted to reconsile so bad, she should admit shes wrong, like you said. Thsnks for telling you whole story :]
well, thanks mamba.(:
some of the things people say just amuse me. i just think that when someone comes on here and calls everyone else idiots, and judges them so harshly and wrongfully without even knowing who they are, and then just says the stupidest stuff… well…i think that shows true idiocy. you guys shouldn’t even let it offend you. people who treat you like that don’t matter. so just move on and don’t even worry about it–you’re already better than them anyway.(:
BRIT! I LOVE how you word everything. You are classy.
PATRICK!! FUCK OFF!!! WITH ”UR” BULLSHYT! dumn ass prick licker!! wtf you stupid ass asshole are you Fucken Websters dictionary??? I dont fucken think so! people dont need to be so precise.. go suck your own dick bastard! hahahah lmfao..
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what the hell is wrong with you people this isnt your problem let em make his own choices and whats with the hatred against him he is not a nigger lover just because he raps well and if you ignorant assholes havent noticed (aka john, tony white power) it doesnt matter what you say black people will still be every which way you look so you cant stop them and just get a goddamn life
patrick you are as bad as the rest of them you cant tell people what to do, say, or live they speak how they want to and whatever the fuck you do aint gonna change that muthafucka so get back on your knees and suck like the bitch you are
Why is all of this going on? The blog is about Eminem ans his mothers problems, not rascism or spelling! If you don’t really have anything to say about that, why don’t you write your own blogs and then you can say what you want!
All of you have valid points, but it’s not meant for this page!
Gavin, I like the way you think, brilliant writing! There’s 2 people in the relationship, not just Eminem, she also needs to do something about fixing her past mistakes!
Uummm….fuck you who posted ” Eminem is a whiny little bitch” your obviously here whining about what that patrick guy said! I’d like to see your ass go through what Eminem did and become one of the greatest entertainers ever! Bitch, you probably work at Mcdonalds.
PS: You couldn’t bust your own cock in half no matter how thin it is!